Bullying
So this is a thread where people can share stories of when they were bullied, also of times they were the bully and why they did it.
Its a hard thing to share stories about this as I myself sadly have been on both sides. This is a place of understanding and acceptance so please dont attack people on here for things they did since its in the past and is unchangeable.
To start off I would like to post this song to anyone being bullied or have been bullied.
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I'll break the silence, this guy was picking on me on the bus, so i threw his backpack out the window....what it was self defense?...
How angry was he and did he get it back?
I can understand your rage at the moment but was he getting physical?
He was threatening me, and he did get it back, but i also got in a lot of trouble
In the end ,do you think it was worth it?
He thought i insulted him, when i said something he didn't understand when he was picking on me, but i guess Miscommunication is just my middle fuckin' name.
Yes it fuckin' was, sonuvabitch deserved it, but i regretted it cause i don't like getting in trouble
To quote Kenny "I dont know what the fuck you just said, but it sounded like bullshit!"
Alright then, if it was worth it in the end then its self defense.
Lol, or "English motherfucker!"
I uh, don't think self defense works like that...
I have a story.
When I was in seventh grade me and this kid was arguing all day. He called me fat I tell him to shut up, you know normal bullying stuff. Well in or second to last period he was throwing stuff at me (Because my friend was throwing stuff at hit and he thought it was me) , well one of those sharp things (I dont remember what it was, like broken pencils) hit my eye. So the rational thing is get the teacher but I get up calmly walk over to him and punch him in the face, then calmly sat back down. I got detention but it was worth it, he didnt get anything (go figure). Do I regret it?
Nope.
Um motivated reasoning? :P
I love Kenny sometimes XD
I don't know about bullying, but I got made fun of a lot for my looks and for various other things all throughout grade school. I never got into fights, even though I got very close more than one time.
The worst thing that ever happened as far as bullying goes was I got sexually harassed and almost assaulted by this one guy who wouldn't leave me alone and was following me around our art class and trying to touch my boobs. He wouldn't stop so the teacher told us to sit down. Later I told the school's police officer and then they almost had to open an investigation. It got really awkward because his girlfriend at the time was one of my former best friends. I was so terrified about the whole situation I never told my parents.
He okay?
My friend had someone throw a pen that got stuck in his back.
I'm sure you look very pretty..
Your comment did not appear, but yes he's fine, it was a while ago, actually it was seventh grade.
Well good, and my friend got lead stuck in his ear when someone threw it in there.
I can't tell if you mean well, or are teasing me. XD But guys don't care what you look like if they're grabbing straight for the boobies.
Wow, is he okay?
What happened to the guy?
Yeah it got taken out that day at a hospital.
XD thats true but usually those are pervs, there are guys like us that care about mind,soul, and looks. XD
When I get embarrassed, flustered, or if I have to talk in front of others I get really flushed, like, my whole body turns red because I get so nervous, and people have made fun of my face my whole life, so, yeah...
Yeah, it was weird because we we're kinda friends before it happened. I had to deal with him all throughout high school after that and no one believed me when I told them what happened, so I ignored it after that.
I know myself, and i don't think about grabbing straight for those, I want to get to know the person underneath.
Oh good.
He got suspended for a few days I think, and nothing else happened.
You shouldn't care about what other people say, if they call you ugly, push it aside, cause anyone that tries to be mean to you is FAR below you...
Nobody ever called me ugly, they just made a lot of comments about it and it made me think I was ugly. Honestly that was my reputation around school, and everyone laughed about it. I didn't realize how much it inhibited me from interacting with people until I got into college and I wouldn't talk to anyone for fear of them seeing my face turn red.
That's just life for you, it will push you down, but you have to get up and keep moving, don't beat yourself up over what people say. Anyway, it was nice talking to you... :P
I've only ever met men who care about looks, soooo.... and guys are only nice or talk to me if I have makeup on or have my girls on display. True story.
But I do believe there are good guys other there, somewhere, just nowhere near me.
I meant if a guy who's going only for the boobies cares about nothing else, not that guys in general are boobie whores.
You dont live near me then XD
I don't care about looks, ain't worth shit if there's a terrible person underneath.
I have to admit I found this out recently about people. If a hot as hell guy has a horrible personality, he is no longer physically handsome. Same goes for pretty girls who are bitches.
But I'm kinda going through the phase where I'm starting to realize every guy I've ever liked was gay, or turned out to be gay, and I liked them because they were nice to me. So it kinda makes me think that guys are only nice to me if they're gay because they know they don't want anything else.. lol
I have a fairly obvious vision impairment and went to public school, so yeah I got bullied sometimes. Never suffered much physical abuse, but people can be ignorant or cruel. Eventually I made enough friends that most bullies left me alone. Headbutting some asshole jock in gym class also helped. I'm usually a really peaceful guy, so I think it caught people completely off-guard. XD
I never bullied anyone, but I've failed to stick up for people who were getting bullied. That's almost as bad...
I know what you meant.
I think it's mostly that the guys I'm around most of the time at my school are still in the, "Get me some hot bitches" phase and don't care for looks, only for a girl who puts out. It's a age problem where I am, not a generalization of guys in general.