It's okay, I appreciate the concern. And honestly, I told like two people and in all honesty they probably weren't the most sympathetic people so yeah, they kinda brushed if off. -_-
it's not that bad when you look at how bad some girls and people do get harassed and actually get assaulted. I think I did eventually tell my parents, but I definitely watered it down because I know how they would've reacted if I had told them out right. lol
Yeah, you wouldn't be the first person who has told me I should consider counseling. XD I don't think that it was that much of a traumatic event TBH, I always tell myself it could be worse, I knew girls who said they were raped by people I knew, and compared to them I didn't think what I went through was bad at all. My parents have told me that since I was born I had a aversion to physical contact, I just don't like to be touched, liked hugged or patted by anyone, it's just uncomfortable, more because it's like I feel a lack of an emotional closeness not a fear of physical harm. I don't know, i'm just weird like that. XD
Haha yeah, I've met good guys, but the majority of them want to get hot bitches and not much else! lol
I am so sorry to hear this. Not only is this sexual assault but to also have people around you not believe your story is horrifying. This pi… moresses me off, because alot of victims do not come forward because they are scared they won't be believed or they will be blamed for the situation.
You did the right thing reporting this to the school, never second guess yourself about this!
As it would, it sounds like this has caused significant trauma and has had a great impact on you and the way you are today. I hope i'm not sounding too nosey here (and please tell me to F-Off if I am) but have you considered counselling? I experienced assault with an ex spouse in my teens and even after it ended (and I was never as brave as you were to actually report it) I didn't speak to a councillor about this until many years later. It did me a world of good and It really helped me to get past alot of my trust and low self-esteem issues I had built up becau… [view original content]
This guy in sixth grade kept making racial jokes to me so one day in the cafeteria I snapped and threw all his shit on the group and poured milk on it. I got detention but it was fucking worth it.
Oh I know a lot about bullying. I was bullied from primary school (which I believe is elementary school in the US?) right up to high school. Verbally abused most days, punched, kicked, had things stolen from me, humiliated in front of girls, those sorta things. I would go and tell the authorities but no one would really believe me.
There were times I wanted to kill myself, but, I could never do it. So I would withdraw from people, tell my folks everything was okay. I would get counselling and stuff, but, it was never easy to work through. It still affects me somewhat today, but, not as much as back then.
Took me a while to understand why they picked on me: Because I was different. I was pretty overweight, walked funny, wasn't gifted like the others (especially at sport). And because they like to get a reaction out of you, like to torment you, to make themselves feel better (perhaps because they have such shitty lives themselves).
So anyway, bullying has always been an important issue for me. Thanks for making this thread. Its good to talk about these things.
Oh I know a lot about bullying. I was bullied from primary school (which I believe is elementary school in the US?) right up to high school.… more Verbally abused most days, punched, kicked, had things stolen from me, humiliated in front of girls, those sorta things. I would go and tell the authorities but no one would really believe me.
There were times I wanted to kill myself, but, I could never do it. So I would withdraw from people, tell my folks everything was okay. I would get counselling and stuff, but, it was never easy to work through. It still affects me somewhat today, but, not as much as back then.
Took me a while to understand why they picked on me: Because I was different. I was pretty overweight, walked funny, wasn't gifted like the others (especially at sport). And because they like to get a reaction out of you, like to torment you, to make themselves feel better (perhaps because they have such shitty lives themselves).
So … [view original content]
It's okay, I appreciate the concern. And honestly, I told like two people and in all honesty they probably weren't the most sympathetic peo… moreple so yeah, they kinda brushed if off. -_-
it's not that bad when you look at how bad some girls and people do get harassed and actually get assaulted. I think I did eventually tell my parents, but I definitely watered it down because I know how they would've reacted if I had told them out right. lol
Yeah, you wouldn't be the first person who has told me I should consider counseling. XD I don't think that it was that much of a traumatic event TBH, I always tell myself it could be worse, I knew girls who said they were raped by people I knew, and compared to them I didn't think what I went through was bad at all. My parents have told me that since I was born I had a aversion to physical contact, I just don't like to be touched, liked hugged or patted by anyone, it's just uncomfortable, more because … [view original content]
Hot bitches are basically the girls guys are DTF(down to fuck) and not anything else. And those hot bitches don't particularly care if it's just a hook up either, so they set the standards too high for girls like me who don't put out, so the only guys who have tried to talk to me immediately go to the DTF stage, and I'm not like that bruh! lol
It's okay, it could've been so much worse, I'm just lucky it wasn't. And Thanks.
Hey Hollay, I bet you are a nice looking girl. I mean, you sound really nice and all, so, why not?
By the way, what are hot bitches exactly? lol
Anyway, I think thats terrible what happened to you. I'm glad you are okay.
I was never bullied like that, but I was shunned by everyone in my high school, so I kinda know how you feel.
I'm glad you made it through though, looking back at high school and grade school it amazes me how much we can be permanently scarred by the interactions with immature children and outright jerks.
I was a artsy student, so I made my best friends in my art classes, that was the only class I ever enjoyed in high school next to history.
I'm sorry people were so mean to you, I think your experiences molded you into a overall kind and empathetic person, and few people who go through that much crap come out like you in the end.
Oh I know a lot about bullying. I was bullied from primary school (which I believe is elementary school in the US?) right up to high school.… more Verbally abused most days, punched, kicked, had things stolen from me, humiliated in front of girls, those sorta things. I would go and tell the authorities but no one would really believe me.
There were times I wanted to kill myself, but, I could never do it. So I would withdraw from people, tell my folks everything was okay. I would get counselling and stuff, but, it was never easy to work through. It still affects me somewhat today, but, not as much as back then.
Took me a while to understand why they picked on me: Because I was different. I was pretty overweight, walked funny, wasn't gifted like the others (especially at sport). And because they like to get a reaction out of you, like to torment you, to make themselves feel better (perhaps because they have such shitty lives themselves).
So … [view original content]
I do not get bullied nor do I bully unless it's somebody who deserves it. Like a bitch.
But my name is spoken about secretly since the pe… moreople who love to talk shit are too pussy to confront me regardless. Even if they do, I will most likely spit in their face or throw something at them. Whether it's a liquid or solid, I don't care lol.
funny story, i remember this was like a year ago and It was passing periods. I was out and going in the school and I remember this ugly ass squad was talking shit and laughing. I ignored it since I didn't even know they were talking about me but when they touched my backpack i turned around and spit my cinnamon gum at the girl who touched me, which was a black girl. and Kicked one in the knee and walked off. They screamed like dumb bitches but again idc. Nor did anybody else, they just watched and walked lol since everybody knew damn well they deserved it.
this was passing periods so it's mixed with freshman,sophomores,juniors and seniors so no. Plus I didn't remember what they looked like anyways. Only time I really had any trouble really.
Aww thanks.
Hot bitches are basically the girls guys are DTF(down to fuck) and not anything else. And those hot bitches don't particular… morely care if it's just a hook up either, so they set the standards too high for girls like me who don't put out, so the only guys who have tried to talk to me immediately go to the DTF stage, and I'm not like that bruh! lol
It's okay, it could've been so much worse, I'm just lucky it wasn't. And Thanks.
It just comes with the territory. Guys worry about being ruined by the man whores and women worry about being ruined by the lady whores. Don't worry about it too much. Just keep being yourself.
I was an English student. I liked studying the subject and I enjoyed it. Oh and science I liked a lot.
Yeah. Some people who go through what I went through end up rather fucked up and stuff. Sure, I've not got fully over it but I haven't let it overcome me.
I was never bullied like that, but I was shunned by everyone in my high school, so I kinda know how you feel.
I'm glad you made it throu… moregh though, looking back at high school and grade school it amazes me how much we can be permanently scarred by the interactions with immature children and outright jerks.
I was a artsy student, so I made my best friends in my art classes, that was the only class I ever enjoyed in high school next to history.
I'm sorry people were so mean to you, I think your experiences molded you into a overall kind and empathetic person, and few people who go through that much crap come out like you in the end.
Oh I know a lot about bullying. I was bullied from primary school (which I believe is elementary school in the US?) right up to high school.… more Verbally abused most days, punched, kicked, had things stolen from me, humiliated in front of girls, those sorta things. I would go and tell the authorities but no one would really believe me.
There were times I wanted to kill myself, but, I could never do it. So I would withdraw from people, tell my folks everything was okay. I would get counselling and stuff, but, it was never easy to work through. It still affects me somewhat today, but, not as much as back then.
Took me a while to understand why they picked on me: Because I was different. I was pretty overweight, walked funny, wasn't gifted like the others (especially at sport). And because they like to get a reaction out of you, like to torment you, to make themselves feel better (perhaps because they have such shitty lives themselves).
So … [view original content]
I've never really been bullied to much, some kids back in 6th grade made fun of how I looked. My apperance has improved over time so that stopped around 7th grade. I still get made fun of a tiny bit for my nasally voice and how much of a weirdo I am, but that's mostly my freinds messing with me. I have bullied people as recently as last school year. I never started the bullying myself, but if my friends would bully someone I would join in. I would usually stop bullying a person after a little while, but I know that I have hurt many people emotionally and I often reflect on the ways I have bullied people and it actually makes me cringe.
Oh I know a lot about bullying. I was bullied from primary school (which I believe is elementary school in the US?) right up to high school.… more Verbally abused most days, punched, kicked, had things stolen from me, humiliated in front of girls, those sorta things. I would go and tell the authorities but no one would really believe me.
There were times I wanted to kill myself, but, I could never do it. So I would withdraw from people, tell my folks everything was okay. I would get counselling and stuff, but, it was never easy to work through. It still affects me somewhat today, but, not as much as back then.
Took me a while to understand why they picked on me: Because I was different. I was pretty overweight, walked funny, wasn't gifted like the others (especially at sport). And because they like to get a reaction out of you, like to torment you, to make themselves feel better (perhaps because they have such shitty lives themselves).
So … [view original content]
I've never really been bullied to much, some kids back in 6th grade made fun of how I looked. My apperance has improved over time so that st… moreopped around 7th grade. I still get made fun of a tiny bit for my nasally voice and how much of a weirdo I am, but that's mostly my freinds messing with me. I have bullied people as recently as last school year. I never started the bullying myself, but if my friends would bully someone I would join in. I would usually stop bullying a person after a little while, but I know that I have hurt many people emotionally and I often reflect on the ways I have bullied people and it actually makes me cringe.
I would love to stand up and say enough, but I have no balls (metaphorically speaking.) I can't even look a person in the eye when they are speaking to me (especially if that person is female, but that's an entirely different problem) so the idea of standing up to my friends like that sounds like suicide.
I used to get bullied, I still do at times, but not like before. The bullies just want a reaction out of you, if you don't give them any, they will leave you alone.
You can also say you agree with them. For example, I few months ago I got a hair cut and the lady messed up my line up. This guy kept making fun of it and I agreed it was shitty. He seemed surprised because I agreed with him, and he left me alone.
You can also argue with them, if you have good comebacks ready. They'll feel hurt and leave you alone.
I have bullied people too and it makes me ashamed. When I look back I want to distance myself from that person I was, I have changed and im proud. The two guys I bullied actually go to my high school, I have apologized and they have forgiven me. They are good people and I dont know what I felt back then to want to do that without reason.
I've never really been bullied to much, some kids back in 6th grade made fun of how I looked. My apperance has improved over time so that st… moreopped around 7th grade. I still get made fun of a tiny bit for my nasally voice and how much of a weirdo I am, but that's mostly my freinds messing with me. I have bullied people as recently as last school year. I never started the bullying myself, but if my friends would bully someone I would join in. I would usually stop bullying a person after a little while, but I know that I have hurt many people emotionally and I often reflect on the ways I have bullied people and it actually makes me cringe.
A lot of people when they do bully do it because "others are doing it" and they don't want to look bad or weak in front of those others. This can actually cause a group to bully when no single one person in the group wants to do it.
If it happens again, if you can find it within yourself to stand up and say confidently, "OK, guys, he's had enough, let's go do this other thing instead," you might be surprised at the result.
I would love to stand up and say enough, but I have no balls (metaphorically speaking.) I can't even look a person in the eye when they are … morespeaking to me (especially if that person is female, but that's an entirely different problem) so the idea of standing up to my friends like that sounds like suicide.
I was bullied all through my first year at High School, and I have no idea why I got singled out so early, but the only reason for it that I was aware of was that they though I was gay. So I tended to snap at people a lot, and ended up looking like a fool because no matter how much I hated them, I couldn't even throw a punch because I knew I'd get in more trouble. So I yelled at them a lot and then all the students and teachers acted like I was the fucking bad guy. And no matter how much I tried to explain myself, they'd always say that I was the one doing somethiñg wrong. Well just fuck them.
I have been bullied at school in the past because I had long hair and facial hair when I was a teenager.
I remember one time when I was in school and there was a girl who was small and timid and she never spoke much. Two guys were bullying her in the playground and I walked upto them and told them to fuck off and leave her alone. They laughed and walked off. The girl gave me a hug and thanked me for helping her which was kind of sweet.
I hate bullying with a passion and have always helped someone who is getting bullied.
I once argued with a bully and he hit me in the face and broke my phone... and next day at school he humiliated me front of my class and after school he and his friends made me smoke 2 cigarettes at same time or he would beat me with a big stick.So that's why I just shut my mouth or try to avoid places where the bullies are.
I used to get bullied, I still do at times, but not like before. The bullies just want a reaction out of you, if you don't give them any, th… moreey will leave you alone.
You can also say you agree with them. For example, I few months ago I got a hair cut and the lady messed up my line up. This guy kept making fun of it and I agreed it was shitty. He seemed surprised because I agreed with him, and he left me alone.
You can also argue with them, if you have good comebacks ready. They'll feel hurt and leave you alone.
I have been bullied at school in the past because I had long hair and facial hair when I was a teenager.
I remember one time when I was i… moren school and there was a girl who was small and timid and she never spoke much. Two guys were bullying her in the playground and I walked upto them and told them to fuck off and leave her alone. They laughed and walked off. The girl gave me a hug and thanked me for helping her which was kind of sweet.
I hate bullying with a passion and have always helped someone who is getting bullied.
I used to get bullied, I still do at times, but not like before. The bullies just want a reaction out of you, if you don't give them any, th… moreey will leave you alone.
You can also say you agree with them. For example, I few months ago I got a hair cut and the lady messed up my line up. This guy kept making fun of it and I agreed it was shitty. He seemed surprised because I agreed with him, and he left me alone.
You can also argue with them, if you have good comebacks ready. They'll feel hurt and leave you alone.
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It's okay, I appreciate the concern.
And honestly, I told like two people and in all honesty they probably weren't the most sympathetic people so yeah, they kinda brushed if off. -_-
it's not that bad when you look at how bad some girls and people do get harassed and actually get assaulted. I think I did eventually tell my parents, but I definitely watered it down because I know how they would've reacted if I had told them out right. lol
Yeah, you wouldn't be the first person who has told me I should consider counseling. XD I don't think that it was that much of a traumatic event TBH, I always tell myself it could be worse, I knew girls who said they were raped by people I knew, and compared to them I didn't think what I went through was bad at all. My parents have told me that since I was born I had a aversion to physical contact, I just don't like to be touched, liked hugged or patted by anyone, it's just uncomfortable, more because it's like I feel a lack of an emotional closeness not a fear of physical harm. I don't know, i'm just weird like that. XD
Haha yeah, I've met good guys, but the majority of them want to get hot bitches and not much else! lol
This guy in sixth grade kept making racial jokes to me so one day in the cafeteria I snapped and threw all his shit on the group and poured milk on it. I got detention but it was fucking worth it.
Oh I know a lot about bullying. I was bullied from primary school (which I believe is elementary school in the US?) right up to high school. Verbally abused most days, punched, kicked, had things stolen from me, humiliated in front of girls, those sorta things. I would go and tell the authorities but no one would really believe me.
There were times I wanted to kill myself, but, I could never do it. So I would withdraw from people, tell my folks everything was okay. I would get counselling and stuff, but, it was never easy to work through. It still affects me somewhat today, but, not as much as back then.
Took me a while to understand why they picked on me: Because I was different. I was pretty overweight, walked funny, wasn't gifted like the others (especially at sport). And because they like to get a reaction out of you, like to torment you, to make themselves feel better (perhaps because they have such shitty lives themselves).
So anyway, bullying has always been an important issue for me. Thanks for making this thread. Its good to talk about these things.
It definitely is good to talk.
Im glad youre still alive, youre a really cool guy.
Thanks man. As they say "whatever doesnt kill you makes you stronger."
Hey Hollay, I bet you are a nice looking girl. I mean, you sound really nice and all, so, why not?
By the way, what are hot bitches exactly? lol
Anyway, I think thats terrible what happened to you. I'm glad you are okay.
I bet crippled people call bullshit on this one XD
Yeah true
The bully was shocked, and the bus driver had to stop the bus, so they could get it, and i got in big trouble.
Glad you're alive dude, keep being a good dude!
Aww thanks.
Hot bitches are basically the girls guys are DTF(down to fuck) and not anything else. And those hot bitches don't particularly care if it's just a hook up either, so they set the standards too high for girls like me who don't put out, so the only guys who have tried to talk to me immediately go to the DTF stage, and I'm not like that bruh! lol
It's okay, it could've been so much worse, I'm just lucky it wasn't. And Thanks.
I was never bullied like that, but I was shunned by everyone in my high school, so I kinda know how you feel.
I'm glad you made it through though, looking back at high school and grade school it amazes me how much we can be permanently scarred by the interactions with immature children and outright jerks.
I was a artsy student, so I made my best friends in my art classes, that was the only class I ever enjoyed in high school next to history.
I'm sorry people were so mean to you, I think your experiences molded you into a overall kind and empathetic person, and few people who go through that much crap come out like you in the end.
Hahaha, did that "ugly ass squad" give you any trouble after that?
this was passing periods so it's mixed with freshman,sophomores,juniors and seniors so no. Plus I didn't remember what they looked like anyways. Only time I really had any trouble really.
Well guys who are only down to fuck aren't worth worrying about. I'm a guy and I don't treat women like that. Makes me ashamed that some guys do.
It just comes with the territory. Guys worry about being ruined by the man whores and women worry about being ruined by the lady whores. Don't worry about it too much. Just keep being yourself.
Thanks Hollay. I appreciate that.
I was an English student. I liked studying the subject and I enjoyed it. Oh and science I liked a lot.
Yeah. Some people who go through what I went through end up rather fucked up and stuff. Sure, I've not got fully over it but I haven't let it overcome me.
This is a great thread, since people can just share their experiences and such. Since almost all of us went through it. Thanks for opening this!
You are awesome.
I understand, is never easy, I'm glad you didn't kill yourself.
I've never really been bullied to much, some kids back in 6th grade made fun of how I looked. My apperance has improved over time so that stopped around 7th grade. I still get made fun of a tiny bit for my nasally voice and how much of a weirdo I am, but that's mostly my freinds messing with me. I have bullied people as recently as last school year. I never started the bullying myself, but if my friends would bully someone I would join in. I would usually stop bullying a person after a little while, but I know that I have hurt many people emotionally and I often reflect on the ways I have bullied people and it actually makes me cringe.
Wow sorry that happened to you, it's impressive that you managed to get through it and emerge a stronger person.
I'm pretty sure we've all, had moments like that.
It's never too late to say 'no more' and stand up to them, instead of playing along.
I would love to stand up and say enough, but I have no balls (metaphorically speaking.) I can't even look a person in the eye when they are speaking to me (especially if that person is female, but that's an entirely different problem) so the idea of standing up to my friends like that sounds like suicide.
I used to get bullied, I still do at times, but not like before. The bullies just want a reaction out of you, if you don't give them any, they will leave you alone.
You can also say you agree with them. For example, I few months ago I got a hair cut and the lady messed up my line up. This guy kept making fun of it and I agreed it was shitty. He seemed surprised because I agreed with him, and he left me alone.
You can also argue with them, if you have good comebacks ready. They'll feel hurt and leave you alone.
No problem, im glad this is helping people.
I have bullied people too and it makes me ashamed. When I look back I want to distance myself from that person I was, I have changed and im proud. The two guys I bullied actually go to my high school, I have apologized and they have forgiven me. They are good people and I dont know what I felt back then to want to do that without reason.
Who? Me? If then, Thanks!
Yes, now I have to try to do something like that if something happens to me.
Lol
Your friends may only be doing it to impress you.
A lot of people when they do bully do it because "others are doing it" and they don't want to look bad or weak in front of those others. This can actually cause a group to bully when no single one person in the group wants to do it.
If it happens again, if you can find it within yourself to stand up and say confidently, "OK, guys, he's had enough, let's go do this other thing instead," you might be surprised at the result.
I was bullied SOOOOOOOOOOO many times when I was a kid. I have no idea, how I'm still alive., sigh bad childhood .
Well im glad you are still alive!
heh me too.
I was bullied all through my first year at High School, and I have no idea why I got singled out so early, but the only reason for it that I was aware of was that they though I was gay. So I tended to snap at people a lot, and ended up looking like a fool because no matter how much I hated them, I couldn't even throw a punch because I knew I'd get in more trouble. So I yelled at them a lot and then all the students and teachers acted like I was the fucking bad guy. And no matter how much I tried to explain myself, they'd always say that I was the one doing somethiñg wrong. Well just fuck them.
I have been bullied at school in the past because I had long hair and facial hair when I was a teenager.
I remember one time when I was in school and there was a girl who was small and timid and she never spoke much. Two guys were bullying her in the playground and I walked upto them and told them to fuck off and leave her alone. They laughed and walked off. The girl gave me a hug and thanked me for helping her which was kind of sweet.
I hate bullying with a passion and have always helped someone who is getting bullied.
I once argued with a bully and he hit me in the face and broke my phone... and next day at school he humiliated me front of my class and after school he and his friends made me smoke 2 cigarettes at same time or he would beat me with a big stick.So that's why I just shut my mouth or try to avoid places where the bullies are.
it's okay, long hair is sort of hot. I'm so glad you told those bullies to fuck off.
i'll protect you when ppl start bullying you ok
Everyone listen to this, it will cheer you up with epicness!!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uN3yqMr3ffY