I accepted no one as my responsibility. He was so happy to be on the straight and narrow. This is HIS fault, and no one else's. I didn't wan… moret to look after him either! He was dumped on me by everyone else!!! T_T
I couldn't stop him! He wanted to leave...
Yeah well he failed the rest of us when he decided to be selfish and mean, he can't go around asking us for shelter and everything else when he's on drugs and we're busy with work!
This guy had a rough childhood, his Dad was in a gang and he was quite hard on him and his Brother. So my colleague was in a gang, and prison, with the tattoo's and horror stories to prove it, and he dealt drugs to get out of gang life. He was kept in rehab for a long time. He was so happy to be out and doing his own thing in a normal way.
But he started to hate the job cuz it wasn't challenging enough for him, and he just started declining. I THINK he's Bipolar tbh. He had a massive up and now he's at rock bottom. Or maybe that is how an addict's mind works?
One of my best friends right now has a friend from back in middle school who has turned into pretty much garbage. Like I don't believe that … moreanyone is a "leech on society" but this guy is an exception. He left his parent's home because they wanted him to either go to college or find a job, or at least seek counseling and wouldn't let him sit around at home doing nothing but smoking all day. So he bounced between his friend's places, living there for free, eating their food, doing nothing to help out, taking their money to get drugs (thank god it was only weed) and then moving on after they got fed up with him. So my best friend, he didn't take in this scumbag, the guy already owed him over a thousand from the mooching he's done off of him, so this asshole goes to my friend's parents and they remember him from middle school and they let him live like that for 5x longer than anyone else did before. This is the same friend whose mother is going t… [view original content]
It's not hard directly for me, it's more difficult to see my friend getting so mad at this guy who he was best friends with when he was younger. What blows my mind is that all 3 of us came from very good communities and relatively stable families.
This guy, you're talking about, he seems to really been a dealt a bad hand from the start (which is awful). Unfortunately there's only so much anyone can do to help him even professionally. What you said about declining, we all suffer from time to time (I do quite often but that's my problem) and it can be so discouraging to face and over come, I can't even imagine what it would be for this guy. I mean if he does have a mental condition, he should see someone and everyone can and should help if he wants it. But it still comes down, is he really wanting to change.
I'm sorry you had to go through a similar event.
This guy had a rough childhood, his Dad was in a gang and he was quite hard on him and h… moreis Brother. So my colleague was in a gang, and prison, with the tattoo's and horror stories to prove it, and he dealt drugs to get out of gang life. He was kept in rehab for a long time. He was so happy to be out and doing his own thing in a normal way.
But he started to hate the job cuz it wasn't challenging enough for him, and he just started declining. I THINK he's Bipolar tbh. He had a massive up and now he's at rock bottom. Or maybe that is how an addict's mind works?
I had the worst day ever today... Just wanna leave everything behind and forget it all happened:
I work with a guy who has been in rehab … morefor a serious drug addiction, he has also been in and out of prison multiple times, been in a gang, dealt drugs etc. Anyways, he has been out of rehab for a couple of months now. His addiction was Heroin.
Well, a dew days ago, he OD'd on the shit... He got kicked out of his rented room, and his girlfriend (my Boss) left him because he was blaming her for not being there for him. He was homeless and going his own way for the whole weekend. Sending drunken voicemails to my Boss saying either that he was sorry and needed help or that she was a fucking bitch.
Today I came in and his whereabouts were unknown, till he called her saying he was at a rehab center in Oxford.... He didn't stay there, instead he bought more drugs and pills.
Then he came to Budgen's (the SubWay store I work at is located insi… [view original content]
We found him outside the shop this morning, not quite sober but better than he was last night. He's been banned from the whole store as well, so the Police came and dropped him off somewhere...
He has 2 choices:
1.) He can take a train back to his hometown and stay with his Mum and Sister as they still care for him a lot. There is less for him here then there is there sadly...
2.) He can stay here and get clean by himself, he's had too many chances already so no rehab will take him in. My Boss will see him once a week with clothes and food (she can't just let him go, I think she still loves him) and I guess go from there. If he gets clean then I don't know what's next.
Sadly, I'll never view him the same way again. I nearly cried about it this morning
It's not hard directly for me, it's more difficult to see my friend getting so mad at this guy who he was best friends with when he was youn… moreger. What blows my mind is that all 3 of us came from very good communities and relatively stable families.
This guy, you're talking about, he seems to really been a dealt a bad hand from the start (which is awful). Unfortunately there's only so much anyone can do to help him even professionally. What you said about declining, we all suffer from time to time (I do quite often but that's my problem) and it can be so discouraging to face and over come, I can't even imagine what it would be for this guy. I mean if he does have a mental condition, he should see someone and everyone can and should help if he wants it. But it still comes down, is he really wanting to change.
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I'm sorry you had to go through a similar event.
This guy had a rough childhood, his Dad was in a gang and he was quite hard on him and his Brother. So my colleague was in a gang, and prison, with the tattoo's and horror stories to prove it, and he dealt drugs to get out of gang life. He was kept in rehab for a long time. He was so happy to be out and doing his own thing in a normal way.
But he started to hate the job cuz it wasn't challenging enough for him, and he just started declining. I THINK he's Bipolar tbh. He had a massive up and now he's at rock bottom. Or maybe that is how an addict's mind works?
It's not hard directly for me, it's more difficult to see my friend getting so mad at this guy who he was best friends with when he was younger. What blows my mind is that all 3 of us came from very good communities and relatively stable families.
This guy, you're talking about, he seems to really been a dealt a bad hand from the start (which is awful). Unfortunately there's only so much anyone can do to help him even professionally. What you said about declining, we all suffer from time to time (I do quite often but that's my problem) and it can be so discouraging to face and over come, I can't even imagine what it would be for this guy. I mean if he does have a mental condition, he should see someone and everyone can and should help if he wants it. But it still comes down, is he really wanting to change.
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Hello! How's your day?
Hey, everyone. I'm back from school. Most boring school day ever ;-;
How are you all today? ^-^
We found him outside the shop this morning, not quite sober but better than he was last night. He's been banned from the whole store as well, so the Police came and dropped him off somewhere...
He has 2 choices:
1.) He can take a train back to his hometown and stay with his Mum and Sister as they still care for him a lot. There is less for him here then there is there sadly...
2.) He can stay here and get clean by himself, he's had too many chances already so no rehab will take him in. My Boss will see him once a week with clothes and food (she can't just let him go, I think she still loves him) and I guess go from there. If he gets clean then I don't know what's next.
Sadly, I'll never view him the same way again. I nearly cried about it this morning
Thnx.
I'm good! Why was it boring?
Today, the whole schedule was filled with boring lessons. And trust me, I almost fell asleep in the class and I never sleep in the class x3
Was it boring-difficult or boring-easy?
More like both.
Boring-difficult-easy?
You can say it like that, yes.
Yay school is finally over i feel so happy anyway how yu all doing?
Bad, I'm going to school
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