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  • It's not cheating. Many bi do it. Or even a majority. It's just hard to understand for the hetero / homosexual.
    It's okay, don't worry.

    I get that you're bisexual but the way you're describing it isn't just bisexual, it's adultery. But I see that everyone else has been saying this already so I'll just move on.

  • I never said you were cheating. It's just that you're calling bisexuality adultery when they're two different things.

    Karnedg2013 posted: »

    It's not cheating. Many bi do it. Or even a majority. It's just hard to understand for the hetero / homosexual. It's okay, don't worry.

  • I'm sorry if you thought so. I will be faithful my girlfriend forever.

    I never said you were cheating. It's just that you're calling bisexuality adultery when they're two different things.

  • CrazedRabbit was completely calm in their comment though. They said that they agreed with the comment above and that's just what they said. They weren't blaming you, they were saying that there shouldn't be a big deal made out of it. I'm happy for you that you could come out and be who you want to be, but I don't think it's that big a deal. It's 2016. People get more pissed at you for being a white straight person than somebody on the LGBT spectrum. If you come out as LGBT, people more often than not throw you a thumbs up and move on. It's just a common thing to be on that spectrum now, it's not special. You're a human being and you have a sexual preference. That's just what it is. That, however, is just my opinion on the matter.

    As I said, I'm happy for you, but I agree with Rabbit. It's not a big deal. Unless you live with a family who's highly against it, or in a city that's highly against it, the only reason it'd be brave to come out is if you were putting the negative thoughts about coming out in your own head. And if so, that's incredibly brave. The biggest obstacle in life to overcome is more often than not yourself. I envy you if you overcame your own negative thoughts and emotions because I sure as fuck can't. But if it wasn't any of those 3 issues, it's just a thing you did. You looked at the world and said "I like vaginas and dicks, and I'm okay with that." and life moved on, because that's a normal thing now.

    I'm incredibly happy that you're choosing to be yourself, but it's not really something you make a big deal out of anymore. Maybe from 2009 - 2012 when it was a bigger issue with certain people and more frowned upon, then it'd be a big deal. But right now in 2016, it isn't. I mean for shit's sake, 80% of tumblr is fucking gay right now. That's millions of people. And the only ones who have problems with that are bigots, terrorists and christian extremists. And I think the amount of people who are chill with it strongly outweigh the other side. It's not a brave thing to do unless something was prohibiting you from doing it. Now the only thing it is, is an exciting thing. Finally, you get to open up and be who you are. You get to be exactly who you are and want to be, and love whoever the fuck you want. And you have freedom to do that now. That's gotta be insanely exciting for you. And yeah, people will give you shit about it and be mean, but it's kind of easy to just ignore them because they're just assholes. What they say holds no weight and doesn't matter because you are better than them.

    Really this whole thread could have been "Ayo b0ss I'm bi what up" and everyone would have been just as excited for you because you came out and showed who you really are as a human being. You showed the world that you can be who you want to be. And that alone is great. There's nothing brave about it (unless there was an obstacle to overcome, which if there was I'm very sorry), you're just who you were before, but more free to be yourself. And that's pretty neat. But back to my original thing, CrazedRabbit was not being hostile or rude, they were agreeing with the comment above and stating their opinion, just as I'm doing now. And really, while the fact that you came out does matter and it is cool, it's nothing to make a huge hoo-rah over. But in the end that's just my view of the situation.

    Karnedg2013 posted: »

    I have already explained above, it is my recognition among people and not attract attention to yourself. Calm down already. You nobody holds in this topic. You can easily get out of here. Here come the people who want to give me support, not blame.

  • This is not bisexuality. There is no urge to be with someone of the other gender while you're in a relationship that comes with being bisexual. A bi-girl won't understand because this has nothing to do with it.

    Karnedg2013 posted: »

    I think I know better about my orientation, Rachel? Also, I often spend time in the bisexual forum and know their needs. Yes. you're right.

  • edited September 2016

    For lots of people, especially those living in homophobic countries like Karnedg, coming out can be really hard, and this can be a step towards making it easier.

    Yeah it's a little silly, but he is excited about finally being able to tell people about it which he can't do very easily in his country. If you dyed your hair pink, and in your country it was really really frowned upon to do that, and you posted a thread saying you really liked it anyway, I'd probably give it a like.

  • Because admitting it can be really really hard for some people, especially those living in homophobic countries, and he feels excited that he can do it here.

    I don't see how this thread is remotely harmful so I'm not sure complaining about it is very helpful either?

    Completely agree, I don't see why he deserves any cheer for liking dicks and vaginas. Good on him as I said, no need to make a fuss about it.

  • Thank you.
    With at least someone understands me. No wonder only bisexual can understand another bi more than others. Because the people on top do not seem to really understand me, and the number of likes on their comments does not make them right. It really means a lot to me and yes, I live in a homophobic country where I could be even killed. It's not easy for me. Thank you!

    Flog61 posted: »

    For lots of people, especially those living in homophobic countries like Karnedg, coming out can be really hard, and this can be a step towa

  • Bisexuals may be married, but all the same meet with representatives of the same sex. Many do so for mutual consent. This is normal. This bisexuality. Stop arguing and prove something, if you very poorly versed in this.

    This is not bisexuality. There is no urge to be with someone of the other gender while you're in a relationship that comes with being bisexual. A bi-girl won't understand because this has nothing to do with it.

  • Last comment of this man was not very polite to me.

    They weren't blaming you, they were saying that there shouldn't be a big deal made out of it. I'm happy for you that you could come out and be who you want to be, but I don't think it's that big a deal. It's 2016. People get more pissed at you for being a white straight person than somebody on the LGBT spectrum. If you come out as LGBT, people more often than not throw you a thumbs up and move on. It's just a common thing to be on that spectrum now, it's not special. You're a human being and you have a sexual preference. That's just what it is. That, however, is just my opinion on the matter.

    Yes, it is 2016. Is that normal? Maybe it's okay for America. But for Russia, where the percentage homophobia is growing year to year is not a normal. And in Ukraine, too much homophobes, especially in my city. I can either be beaten or even killed.

    You looked at the world and said "I like vaginas and dicks, and I'm okay with that." and life moved on, because that's a normal thing now.

    I don't say these words. It is you. You don't have to repeat this is not the first time. I know that bisexual and I am glad that, I am glad that I can love people regardless of gender, not because I can have sex with women and men.
    Again stereotypes...

    That's millions of people.

    And I'm one of them, so I and everyone can admit to their orientation before by anyone, if they wish, and you can not disable it.

    Finally, you get to open up and be who you are. You get to be exactly who you are and want to be, and love whoever the fuck you want. And you have freedom to do that now. That's gotta be insanely exciting for you. And yeah, people will give you shit about it and be mean, but it's kind of easy to just ignore them because they're just assholes. What they say holds no weight and doesn't matter because you are better than them.

    Oh no. I cant. Do you know why? The reason I wrote above. I still have not confessed to their parents, friends and the society. I do not know how they react. In Russia(probably in our country) even the police can protect homophobe, and humiliate the one who protects LGBT.

    Really this whole thread could have been "Ayo b0ss I'm bi what up" and everyone would have been just as excited for you because you came out and showed who you really are as a human being. You showed the world that you can be who you want to be. And that alone is great. There's nothing brave about it (unless there was an obstacle to overcome, which if there was I'm very sorry), you're just who you were before, but more free to be yourself.

    Thank you for your opinion. I don't consider myself better than others and do not try to stand out. I just wanted to admit at least someone. And I will not before you opravdyvatsya. So all the negative comments are irrelevant. I've said enough.

    CrazedRabbit was completely calm in their comment though. They said that they agreed with the comment above and that's just what they said.

  • Yes, it is 2016. Is that normal? Maybe it's okay for America. But for Russia, where the percentage homophobia is growing year to year is not a normal. And in Ukraine, too much homophobes, especially in my city. I can either be beaten or even killed.

    Shit, I wasn't aware you lived in Russia, I thought you were in America or in the UK. I'm so very sorry, yeah that situation actually has to be pretty shit.

    I don't say these words. It is you.

    Actually, the whole "I like vaginas and dicks" thing was clearly a joke. It was just a bit of humor onto the situation.

    And I'm one of them, so I and everyone can admit to their orientation before by anyone, if they wish, and you can not disable it.

    I never said you weren't allowed to admit your orientation, it's just that I didn't think it was a huge deal. It's something that you can say and people, such as myself, could just give you a short congrats and move on. I've said multiple times I really am happy for you, I just wasn't aware why it's a big deal. Now that I'm aware you live in a place like Russia, I can see why coming out is a bit of an issue and I'm sorry that the situation is like that.

    I don't consider myself better than others and do not try to stand out. I just wanted to admit at least someone.

    I never said that you considered yourself better than others, I said that to me, coming out isn't exactly a big hoorah. An old friend of mine came out to me before anyone else and I straight up told her "Good, I'm proud of you for letting yourself be you" and the conversation was never brought up again. I acknowledged that she was on the LGBT spectrum and life went on as usual. I wasn't stating I thought you were better than anyone else as I feel all individuals on this planet are equals, but I was stating that I didn't think it was that big a deal. But again, since Russia is your home place, now I can see why it'd be an issue and such a big obstacle for you to overcome, and while I still don't think coming out in general is something that people should start an uproar about, if you decide to come out in a place where they actively are against that spectrum, then it is very brave, and I do wish nothing but luck your way.

    So all the negative comments are irrelevant. I've said enough.

    My comment was not negative and neither was CrazedRabbit's. We were sharing our opinions on the matter. And yes, you are right, the negative comments are indeed irrelevant, I said that in my comment too. People being negative or hateful towards you are just fucking assholes.

    Karnedg2013 posted: »

    Last comment of this man was not very polite to me. They weren't blaming you, they were saying that there shouldn't be a big deal made

  • edited September 2016

    Thank you, I'm sorry, if I understood that something was wrong. I appreciate your feedback.
    Sorry if I offended you @CrazedRabbit .
    By the way, I live in Ukraine, Russia is near. But here, it's still a lot of homophobia. Especially in my small town. There's even one person (man) wanted to beat two or three girls (!) lesbians who were kissing on the street.
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    P.S. And thanks for support.

    Yes, it is 2016. Is that normal? Maybe it's okay for America. But for Russia, where the percentage homophobia is growing year to year is not

  • Ayo b0ss I'm bi what up

    ayy b0ss can i habe da pussi and dic?

    CrazedRabbit was completely calm in their comment though. They said that they agreed with the comment above and that's just what they said.

  • Whoop-de-doo, go drink a toast to yourself.

  • I'm not drink.
    And you do not advise.

    Whoop-de-doo, go drink a toast to yourself.

  • Blind SniperBlind Sniper Moderator
    edited September 2016

    ayy b0ss can i habe da pussi and dic?

    Let's stay on topic and make good contributions to the thread. If you don't have something constructive to add, then don't post.

    (Before you say anything - Yes, I know you were just making a joke by quoting Filthy Frank/Pink Guy. I watch the channel too, but even so, we still ask you stay on topic for more serious discussions.)

    Forum Guideline 1.3: Please try to keep off topic posts to a minimum. If you decide to discuss something off topic, consider making a new topic instead. If you think a certain topic is not worth discussing, don't try to destroy the ongoing discussion with arguments, off topic posts, ironic jokes, excessive use of pictures/gifs/videos, or anything else that will derail the thread. Just refrain from posting in that thread, or flag any posts if necessary.

    papai46 posted: »

    Ayo b0ss I'm bi what up ayy b0ss can i habe da pussi and dic?

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    papai46 posted: »

    Ayo b0ss I'm bi what up ayy b0ss can i habe da pussi and dic?

  • People don't get belittled/beaten up/killed for having brown eyes.

    This. I don't see how congratulating people for having a certain sexuality promotes equality in any way. It's like saying 'congratulation

  • Just because gay people are killed and beaten in certain places and cultures does that mean that every single gay person becomes better than the average person? Becomes deserving of congratulation?
    Jews were mistreated and killed in the past, black people were enslaved in the past yet you don't see people congratulating them for being jews or for being born black.
    People should be fighting for equality not supermacy, that's all I'm saying. If we want to be equals, we should be treated as equals, and congratulating people for seemingly nothing isn't promoting the equality we want to achieve in any way.

    People don't get belittled/beaten up/killed for having brown eyes.

  • Just because gay people are killed and beaten in certain places and cultures does that mean that every single gay person becomes better than the average person?

    wow, i cant even begin to explain how ignorant u sound right now.

    Just because gay people are killed and beaten in certain places and cultures does that mean that every single gay person becomes better than

  • Um, congrats, I guess.

    But seriously, I don't think there's any need to make a whole post about it. Take this from someone who's also bisexual, but there isn't anything special by having a different sexual orientation other than "straight". Sure, I admire your confidence of telling people that you are bisexual, but that doesn't make you a special snowflake.

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    Wolfenus54 posted: »

    Um, congrats, I guess. But seriously, I don't think there's any need to make a whole post about it. Take this from someone who's also bis

  • edited September 2016
  • Don't tell me to shut up. This isn't a middle school. ;)

    even if I pull up a Hillary Clinton. >:(

    You tryna make me throw up fam?

  • U WOT

    YOU DIDN'T JUST SAY THAT.

    You tryna make me throw up fam?

    ...

    yes

    JonDee013 posted: »

    Don't tell me to shut up. This isn't a middle school. even if I pull up a Hillary Clinton. >:( You tryna make me throw up fam?

  • I DID. NOW WHAT!?

    ... yes

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    Wolfenus54 posted: »

    U WOT YOU DIDN'T JUST SAY THAT. You tryna make me throw up fam? ... yes

  • I DID. NOW WHAT!?

    1v1 me in csgo >:(

    And of course you did, mate. ;)

    JonDee013 posted: »

    I DID. NOW WHAT!? ... yes

  • CSGO? AIN'T NOBODY GOT TIME FOR THAT. 1 V 1 RUST, MORE LIKE. I'M OLD SKOOL.

    Wolfenus54 posted: »

    I DID. NOW WHAT!? 1v1 me in csgo >:( And of course you did, mate.

  • MY PC CAN'T RUN RUST, THOUGH JFHGHGDHGFDDG

    JonDee013 posted: »

    CSGO? AIN'T NOBODY GOT TIME FOR THAT. 1 V 1 RUST, MORE LIKE. I'M OLD SKOOL.

  • Sounds like surrender to me. I win!

    Wolfenus54 posted: »

    MY PC CAN'T RUN RUST, THOUGH JFHGHGDHGFDDG

  • ...

    i hate u

    Reported for abuse.

    (Also, we should stop derailing this thread now, before we get into trouble rip)

    JonDee013 posted: »

    Sounds like surrender to me. I win!

  • Fine by me. If I have to scroll past those pictures again, I might just kms.

    Until we meet again then. Buh bye. :)

    Wolfenus54 posted: »

    ... i hate u Reported for abuse. (Also, we should stop derailing this thread now, before we get into trouble rip)

  • enter image description here

    Eugh...

    Just because gay people are killed and beaten in certain places and cultures does that mean that every single gay person becomes better than

  • I'm so happy for you! <3

  • edited September 2016

    Yes? Something about my post that you disagree with or find inappropriate? Why don't you tell me what and why? Or are you like the other dude that calls me ignorant but can't make a single point explaining why?

    Eugh...

  • I see quite a few points that I disagree with, but I settled with a GIF that explains the overall thought of what my reply could've been.

    Yes? Something about my post that you disagree with or find inappropriate? Why don't you tell me what and why? Or are you like the other dude that calls me ignorant but can't make a single point explaining why?

  • Ok, my dear. Why don't you tell me what you disagree with and explain why you think it's wrong? Seriously, can't wait to hear it.

    I see quite a few points that I disagree with, but I settled with a GIF that explains the overall thought of what my reply could've been.

  • edited September 2016

    I feel like sharing a sexual orientation is always such an exaggerated event. Like most things, I'm on the fence about announcements like this, because there's essentially only two responses that you can gauge. Either people are overly enthusiastic for something that isn't all that important in the long run, or they're overly cynical. I find my knee-jerk response is much more of the latter, but at the same time I understand how in a society largely filled with hetero-centric imagery, advertisements, and general biased that "coming out" could be a relieving experience.

    It's nice to know that you've found solace and comfort in your skin, most people go their whole lives living a miserable existence. And not just gay or bi people mind you, but I'd recommend taking this time to go out and really discover what it is you want. At least from my personal experiences, many bi-sexual individuals typically go through a phase in which they want psychical release (typically from the opposite gender) and emotional release from their gender.

    Have fun, be safe, and live it up but always remember to think and don't stop discovering things about yourself, your sexuality doesn't make you who you are.

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